Interracial dating

people need to follow their heart LOVE IS WHERE YOU FIND IT
but so many brothers (sisters too at times but not as much) exclusively wont date Blacks because they are SELF LOATHING
they want what society says is most beautiful/exotic
they dont see the beauty in their mothers, sisters, aunts
they want what's "forbidden"
when i meet interracial couples that love each other for themselves (yes ethnicity shapes who you are i acknowledge that) and not their ethnicity/nationality I THINK ITS BEAUTIFUL love is so hard to work thru, hold on to it and keep it

but i'll be blunt i warn by white girl friends (all my gfs actually) against dating any man that exclusively wont date ANY ethnicity esp their own BECAUSE THAT'S NOT GONNA BE A POSITIVE RELATIONSHIP CUZ THAT MAN ON SOME LEVEL DOES NOT LIKE/RESPECT HIMSELF

point blank

amerikkka is a strange place, all over the world race relations are much better

and SISTAHS REMEMBER WE ARE SO STRONG, GOD MADE US STRONG AND MANY MEN DONT WANT THE "HASSLE"/ responsibility/ honor OF LEADING US... i'm not saying that other women are weak neccisarily but black women have a tendency of being strong willed, we are so special and so spicy AND VERY VERY UNDERRATED AND UNDER APPRECIATED

but if he dont want you, good... that's God telling you he aint worthy, dont settle, ive been married for 4 years and its ignorant when men lump black women together and say we have low self esteem, PLS!!! save it, we just have high expectations, and pls lets keep it that way, and always RAISE THE BAR

one last thing... it annoys me and is very unintelligent when people assume that the brothers that dont date Blacks are the ones that black women always rejected... i was at the comedy store and a very funny white comedienne said something like "you know how black women hate for us white women to take their men? well they love me because i take the ugly ones they dont want. i take forrest whittaker without the talent"

first off forrest is beautiful.... and that's just not true, Women, be with the man that loves and appreicates you for you, if he want you to parade around his white girl, latina girl, asian girl, black girl etc... if you are a status symbol, if he wit you cuz he was teased about his complexion and he wants his kids to have "that good hair" RUN RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!!!

-mai of mark mai words

peace love knowledge

ps yes i think its werid that there is a website for people who are exclusivly looking for interracial relationships, just like its werid to have dating sites that are like find a millionarie! find an old man about to kick the bucket, .... it makes it like a fetish!!!